Key Points
Earl Spencer claims King Charles said 'forget her soon enough' after Diana's 1997 death.
Spencer apologised to Piers Morgan over factual error linking him to 1993 gym photographs.
Buckingham Palace disputes Spencer's allegations, citing grief affecting memory.
Royal courtiers contradict Spencer, stating King was distraught with grief.
Earl Spencer’s memoir ‘Swan Song: Diana, My Sister’ has triggered a public dispute with Buckingham Palace over allegations about King Charles’ conduct after Princess Diana’s death in 1997. The book claims the King said people would ‘forget her soon enough’ and sounded ‘giddily elated’ after her death. Buckingham Palace rejected these claims, and the memoir’s credibility has already suffered after Spencer admitted a factual error linking broadcaster Piers Morgan to controversial photographs from 1993.
What Spencer claims in the memoir
In ‘Swan Song: Diana, My Sister’, Earl Spencer alleges that during a telephone call before Diana’s funeral, King Charles said ‘Rest assured, we’ll forget her soon enough.’ Spencer also claims the King sounded ‘giddily elated’ the morning Diana died in a Paris car crash on 31 August 1997. Spencer later conceded he could not be certain of the King’s thoughts during that call. The book also contains allegations that Diana told Spencer the King was ‘in love with his valet’.
Palace response and the gaslighting accusation
Buckingham Palace issued a statement saying the ‘pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise.’ Spencer called this response ‘very aggressive’ and accused the Palace of ‘gaslighting’ during a New York book event on Tuesday. He said the King had not directly denied his account of the telephone call. Spencer told former Vanity Fair editor Tina Brown that the book was ‘a brother’s loving tribute’ and felt frustrated by the Palace’s characterisation of his recollections.
Credibility damaged by factual errors
Spencer apologised to Piers Morgan over an inaccuracy in the memoir. Spencer incorrectly claimed Morgan was editor of the Daily Mirror when controversial gym photographs of Diana were published in November 1993. Morgan did not join the Daily Mirror until October 1995 and was working for The Sun at the time. Morgan has launched legal action over the error. Royal courtiers and allies of the King who were present at the time have publicly stated Charles was ‘distraught with grief’, contradicting Spencer’s allegations.
Wider family tensions over Diana’s legacy
Prince William has remained silent about the book and its claims. Spencer said both William and Harry are ‘okay’ with its publication and that he did not seek their approval beforehand. Prince Harry is reportedly exploring plans for a new Princess Diana documentary, which William reportedly rejected, expressing concern about the independent commercial project. The book publication loomed over the royal family and threatened to destabilise the monarchy just months after it had recovered from the fallout over Prince Andrew’s arrest following his past friendship with Jeffrey Epstein.
Final Thoughts
Spencer’s memoir has backfired. Factual errors, legal action from Morgan, and contradictions from royal witnesses have undermined his credibility. The Palace’s measured response and public support from those present at the time suggest the dispute has tilted against Spencer rather than damaging the King.
FAQs
Spencer claims the King said ‘Rest assured, we’ll forget her soon enough’ during a telephone call before Diana’s funeral in 1997. The Palace disputes this account.
Spencer incorrectly stated Morgan was editor of the Daily Mirror when gym photographs of Diana were published in 1993. Morgan did not join the Mirror until 1995 and was working for The Sun at the time.
The Palace issued a statement saying grief can ‘cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory’. Spencer called this response ‘very aggressive’ and accused the Palace of gaslighting him.
Spencer said both nephews are ‘okay’ with the book’s publication. Prince William has remained publicly silent. Harry is reportedly planning his own Diana documentary.
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Danny Kontos
Co FounderDanny Kontos has been a stock investor since 2007 and co-founded Meyka in 2023. He keeps a small, focused portfolio and only moves when the numbers are hard to argue with. He has waited years on a single position before. Before Meyka, he ran a web hosting company and a mortgage lending platform, so he knows what a well-run business actually looks like under the hood. This article did not come from a news cycle. It came from someone who has been watching this space for a long time.
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